In verses Matthew 6:9 – 13, Jesus provides a model for believers to follow as they pray. He is speaking to crowds that have gathered around Him as He sits and preaches. Jesus is sharing that believers are not to pray to draw attention to ourselves or to just say Christian phrases so we sound good. He exhorts us to pray differently. He then shares what is commonly called the Lord’s Prayer. Jesus says, “Pray then like this:
“Our Father in heaven,
hallowed be your name.
10 Your kingdom come,
your will be done,
on earth as it is in heaven.
11 Give us this day our daily bread,
12 and forgive us our debts,
as we also have forgiven our debtors.
13 And lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil.”

The seventh line, “and forgive us our debts,,” is our confession to the Lord that we are sinners and our debts (or sins) are many. God promises to forgive us, 1 John 1:9 says, “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” Why does asking God for forgiveness matter? If we believe in Jesus as the Son of God who died for our sins, then we are going to heaven. And we are humans, so we are going to keep sinning every day that we are still here on earth. God knows we love Jesus even when we sin, so why do we have to ask for His forgiveness?
There are many verses in the Bible about what happens if confess our sins. James 5:16 says, “Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.” How do we become righteous so our prayers are powerful and effective? We confess our sins, we ask God for forgiveness and He purifies us from all unrighteousness. We are healed through the process of asking for forgiveness. That means asking God for forgiveness when we sin, because all sin is a direct attack on God. If we sin against someone, we should ask for their forgiveness. In both cases, we will be healed from the burdens of guilt and shame that we carry when we sin because we have obeyed Scriptures.
Proverbs 28:13 says, “Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper, but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy.” When we ask for forgiveness, we find healing and mercy and God cleanses us with the precious blood of Jesus so we are made righteous and our prayers are powerful and effective once again. If your prayers feel ineffective, reflect on whether there is unconfessed sin in your life. Reflect on whether you need to ask God and/or someone to forgive you of your debts. Freedom, mercy and forgiveness are waiting.
Let’s pray. Father in heaven, thank You for showing us how to pray. Thank You for the promise we have of Your forgiveness if we confess our sins. Help us to see the places in our lives where we need to ask for forgiveness and where we need strength to turn from sin so our debts do not keep growing. Help us to place You first in everything so that we may reflect Your love to everyone we meet. In Jesus name we pray, amen.



