Why We Need Our Own Relationship With God

There are many wonderful spiritual leaders in the world. If we are blessed, we have amazing Pastors, mentors, husbands, Deacons, Elders and others in our lives. Regardless of how wonderful and smart and close to God those around us are, we must have our own personal relationship with God. We must pray to Him daily and read His Word daily. We cannot and should not solely rely on the spiritual leaders or people in our life to guide us in the same way that God would. I was reading a very familiar set of verses that highlighted this topic for me.

“As Pharaoh approached, the people of Israel looked up and panicked when they saw the Egyptians overtaking them. They cried out to the Lord, and they said to Moses, “Why did you bring us out here to die in the wilderness? Weren’t there enough graves for us in Egypt? What have you done to us? Why did you make us leave Egypt? Didn’t we tell you this would happen while we were still in Egypt? We said, ‘Leave us alone! Let us be slaves to the Egyptians. It’s better to be a slave in Egypt than a corpse in the wilderness!’” But Moses told the people, “Don’t be afraid. Just stand still and watch the Lord rescue you today. The Egyptians you see today will never be seen again. The Lord himself will fight for you. Just stay calm.” Then the Lord said to Moses, “Why are you crying out to me? Tell the people to get moving! Pick up your staff and raise your hand over the sea. Divide the water so the Israelites can walk through the middle of the sea on dry ground.” Exodus‬ ‭14‬:‭10‬-‭16‬ ‭NLT‬‬

In the last few verses, Moses tells the people to stand still. But then God tells the people to get moving. While there are many ways we can look at these verses, the point to focus on is that Moses had an incredibly close relationship with God. Yet, perhaps he told the people his opinion or he was just wrong – this is why we need to have our own personal relationship with God. We cannot and should not rely on anyone to have a relationship with God for us, we need to be in daily contact with God. Reading His word, praying to Him, and learning Him to know what He would and would not want us to do as His children.

Let’s pray. Lord, thank You for those in our life that lead us, please give them wisdom and discernment. Help us to not rely on their relationship with You but to build our own relationship with You. Help us to hear You, see You and feel You as we seek You in our daily walk. In Jesus’ precious name, we pray, amen.

The Ultimate Sacrifice

As believers in Jesus Christ, we know that the ultimate sacrifice of all of history is the act of Jesus dying on the cross. Jesus chose to lay down His life so that we may be forgiven by His precious blood and able to live with Him in heaven forever. One may wonder as we walk this earth, what is an ultimate scarifice that we can offer to Jesus?

When you lose a loved one, it hurts. I have discovered that somehow it hurts deeper when the loved one is younger or the death is unexpected, tragic. During those times of hurt and pain, may we remember that God is the Comforter. 2 Corinthians 1:3 – 4 says, “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.”

What if somehow, in those moments of pain, we pray over God’s Word as a source of strength. In Matthew 5:4 Jesus promises, “Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.” May we be able to say to God, I understand that I am going through this pain and You will comfort me so that I can comfort others.

At some point in the future, we will find a new way to move through life without our loved one. This may mean that we are never the same again or that we feel like we are missing a vital organ as we continue our journey on earth. But, we keep going. As we keep going, there will come a time when we will know someone that experiences the unspeakable hurt of losing a loved one. In that moment as we move to comfort another who is grieving, may we be able to put our pain on the altar of sacrifice. Isaiah 40:1 says, “Comfort, comfort my people, says your God.”

I believe that an example of an ultimate sacrifice that we can offer is fruit for others from our pain. If you are in the midst of pain, know that Jesus will bring you comfort so that you will reach the point of being able to walk with someone else who is in pain.

Let’s pray. May we see that You comfort us so that we can then be a comforter to someone else. Please let us see that our pain has a purpose Lord. Please let our suffering become fruit for someone else and an offering to You. Help us to trust You in the midst of pain and suffering. Bring us comfort so that we may then comfort others. Help us to see Your plan to use our pain. In Jesus’ precious name, we pray, amen.

Ten Lessons For the New Year . . . From A Dirt Pile – Part 2

I had a pile of dirt dropped off in my yard and then had to spread it all around. When the pile of dirt arrived, it was much more than I expected. Nonetheless, I was grateful to have the dirt pile and started working on spreading it. Almost six hours later, I felt like I had barely shoveled any dirt, the pile remained huge. I felt overwhelmed as I went inside for the night as it was too dark to see the dirt pile. The next day, I went outside refreshed by my prayer time in the morning and ready to see what God wanted to teach me.

Lesson #5: There were times when I was tiring out, but when you are weary, stay focused on God. Isaiah 40:31 says, “But those who trust in the Lord will find new strength. They will soar high on wings like eagles. They will run and not grow weary. They will walk and not faint.” So whether you have enough energy to soar like an eagle or enough energy to run or only enough energy left to walk – God will meet you where you are and give you strength to keep going.

Lesson #6: There were times when I lifted a heavy load of dirt wrong and caused pain in my muscles. Isaiah 26:3 says, “You will keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, all whose thoughts are fixed on you!”. During those moments when I did not do something quite right or twisted the wrong way, God was right there to protect me. I had to focus on the blue sky, feel the breeze, be grateful for the dirt and be grateful that I could move and lift and garden. I am so grateful that God protects and loves us always, He is always right there – even in a daily task like shoveling dirt.

Lesson #7: Doing the right thing does not mean there will be no issues. The dirt was going to be disposed of. Instead, I requested that the dirt be dumped in my yard because the dirt came from the same land as mine and in my opinion needed to stay on the land; I thought that was the right thing to do. The lesson here is that just because you are doing the right thing does not mean there will be no issues or problems. In fact, many times when you are trying to do the right thing, there are more problems as the enemy tries to thwart your efforts to do the right thing.

Lesson #8: Pace yourself. Ecclesiastes 9:11 says. “The fastest runner doesn’t always win the race, and the strongest warrior doesn’t always win the battle.”  Take your time and move at a pace that your body is comfortable with, take breaks and talk to God. Pray and listen to Him versus running yourself ragged. Hebrews 12:1 says, “And let us run with endurance the race God has set before us.” Notice that this verse says ” with endurance”, not speed.

Lesson #9: If you can, find someone to accompany you in your task. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 says, “Two are better than one because they have a good reward for their efforts. 10 For if either falls, his companion can lift him up; but pity the one who falls without another to lift him up.” If you can find someone to help you physically with your task or through praying, two are better than one.

Lesson #10: The most important lesson from the dirt pile is a personal one that may also apply to you as we enter a new year. I learned through the dirt pile that God is still talking. He is talking all the time, but sometimes the busyness of this world drowns Him out. As I shoveled dirt for hours, there was nothing to take my attention away from God. I removed myself from the noise of the world, got into nature and just had a conversation with God.

When was the last time you put the phone away, turned off the television, and went to be alone with God? Jesus did. Mark 1:35 says, “Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed.” In this new year, may we spend more time in prayer than we ever have before, may we create time and space to just be with God, the lover of our souls. This new year, there will be hustle and bustle and there will be problems and hurt – that is life. Make a relationship with God your priority every day and you will be filled with a peace that surpasses human understanding.

Let’s pray using Solomon’s prayer of blessings. “Lord God, there is no God like you in heaven above or on earth below, who keeps the gracious covenant with your servants who walk before you with all their heart. You have fulfilled your promise by your power as it is today. Therefore, Lord God, listen to your servant’s prayer and petition, so that you may hear the cry and the prayer that your servant prays before you today. When your people return to you and praise your name, may you hear in heaven and forgive the sin of your people. When they sin against you—for there is no one who does not sin—and when they return to you with all their heart and all their soul and when they pray to you, may you hear in heaven, their prayer and petition and uphold their cause. May you forgive your people, and may you grant them compassion. May your eyes be open to your servant’s petition and to the petition of your people, listening whenever they call to you.” In Jesus name we pray, amen.

Ten Lessons For the New Year . . . From A Dirt Pile – Part 1

Gardening is a wonderful activity! There’s fresh air, exercise and the chance to enjoy the beauty of God’s creation. There are occasions when I underestimate the time commitment needed for gardening, such as how long it takes to plant multiple large trees. Or that two hundred flower bulbs take several hours to plant deep enough and then water. Recently, I had the opportunity to obtain some ‘good’ dirt. Gardners know that there is regular dirt and then there is ‘good’ dirt, which is the kind that makes plants grow better.

This pile of dirt was deposited into my yard and then had to be spread all around. When the pile of dirt was dropped off, it was much more than I expected. Nonetheless, I was grateful to have the dirt pile and started working on spreading it. Almost six hours later, I felt like I had barely shoveled any dirt, the pile remained huge. I felt overwhelmed as I went inside for the night as it was too dark to see the dirt pile.

Lesson #1: The next day, I returned to work on the dirt pile, convinced that I would finish it that day. After a few hours, I stepped back and focused on how much dirt was left to be moved. I started to feel overwhelmed again. I then heard the Holy Spirit say, “Do not focus on what is undone, focus on what has been done.” I went back to work feeling inspired.

Lesson #2: To spread the dirt, I had a shovel, a wheelbarrow and a pitchfork. The wheelbarrow always leans to the left and tips over a lot. I was getting frustrated each time it tipped over spilling dirt in a place that I did not want it. I then heard the Spirit say, “Use the tools you have in the way they work best.” This made me realize that things do not always work as they were made to work. Knowing the wheelbarrow was always going to tip left, I needed to change the way I was using it. I loaded it up heavier on the right and lined it up to dump out the dirt on the left so it would tip easier. This made me think about people. God made each of us with a certain way that we are inclined to work best. Instead of trying to get others to fit into the way I think they should work, I need to to see the way they work as a strength.

Lesson #3: There were times that my back hurt or I felt tired, in those moments I had to realize that it is okay to take a break. The dirt pile will still be there after I take a few minutes to just breathe and pray.

Lesson #4: I learned that working on the same side of the dirt pile did not provide a complete picture. It is good to walk around the situation and take inventory. Consider things from all sides and you may learn something about what you are working on that will make the task easier.

Let’s pray. Father, as we enter into a new year, we pray Solomon’s prayer of blessing. “Blessed be the Lord! Not one of all the good promises He made has failed. May the Lord our God be with us. May He not abandon us or leave us so that He causes us to be devoted to Him, to walk in all His ways, and to keep His commands. May all the peoples of the earth know that the Lord is God. There is no other! Be wholeheartedly devoted to the Lord our God to walk in His statutes and to keep His commands, as it is today.” In Jesus name we pray, amen.

Your Christmas Gift to God

What gift can you give a God Who has everything and needs nothing?

Romans 12:1 says, “And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice—the kind he will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship him. Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.”

To be clear, God created you so your body belongs to Him already. The gift you can give God is an act of worship, it is about treating the body God gave you as holy. The way we do that is to be different than the world, not just imitate what we see going on around us. The word “holy” means to be set apart. We are to look and act different from the rest of the world because we belong to God.

The great part of treating your body as holy is that God will then give you a gift in return. In Romans 12:2, we see that if we give our bodies to God, that act allows Him to change the way we think. He then provides us with the gift of knowing God’s will for our lives.

Some people say they do not know God’s will for their lives or how to figure it out. Romans 12 tells us to focus on treating our body as a living and holy sacrifice. Allowing God to change the way we think by assessing how we might act too much like the world, instead of like Jesus. It is through these steps that we learn God’s will for our lives. He gives us a gift in return that is good and pleasing and perfect. What an amazing God we serve!

Let’s pray. Father in heaven, thank You for the gifts You give us every day. Each breath we take is a gift from you. Thank You for the gift of Your Son and for what He did for us on the cross. Help us to worship You and treat our bodies as holy and living sacrifices. In Jesus name we pray, amen.

The Birth of Jesus Brings Murder

The story of the birth of Jesus is a common one told around this time of year. Let’s take a fresh look at well-known verses and explore the perspective of the people involved, specifically Mary. Those who have attended church or know enough of the Bible may have heard that Mary is the mother of Jesus. She was a virgin when Jesus was conceived, around the age of 15, living in the village of Nazareth.

Being the mom of the Son of God was no easy assignment. Once the baby Jesus was born, things continued to be chaotic for Mary, the teenage mom. King Herod ordered the young mom’s child to be hunted down and killed. The murderous king would stop at nothing to ensure that Jesus was murdered.

In Matthew 2:13, Mary had just hosted a visit from three wise men who had traveled very far to see Jesus. They came bearing gifts and with a desire in their heart to worship the Messiah. “After the wise men were gone, an angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream. “Get up! Flee to Egypt with the child and his mother,” the angel said. “Stay there until I tell you to return, because Herod is going to search for the child to kill him.” 14 That night Joseph left for Egypt with the child and Mary, his mother. 16 Herod was furious when he realized that the wise men had outwitted him. He sent soldiers to kill all the boys in and around Bethlehem who were two years old and under, based on the wise men’s report of the star’s first appearance.” 

After an amazing and uplifting visit from the three wise men, Mary had to flee in the middle of the night to save her baby. She and Joseph had to run to Egypt. Mary was now a teenager with a 2-year old in a foreign place being hunted by King Herod’s assassins. She was not used to the language, the culture, the gods, the food nor did she have any family or friends.

God protected Mary, Joseph and Jesus from the murderous rampage. The Holy Spirit guided them as to where they should go and where they should stay. Jospeh received instruction from God in his dreams and he obeyed. God speaks to each of us in His own way. He is always speaking, but it is up to us to obey.

Let’s pray. Lord, thank You that we have the Holy Spirit to guide us in our lives. Help us to listen to Him and obey His directions. Help us to hear You clearly and be quick to follow Your lead. Thank You for Jesus. In His precious name we pray, amen.

The Birth of Jesus Brings Pain

The story of the birth of Jesus is a common one told around this time of year. Let’s take a fresh look at well-known verses and explore the perspective of the people involved, specifically Mary. Those who have attended church or know enough of the Bible may have heard that Mary is the mother of Jesus. She was a virgin when Jesus was conceived, around the age of 15, living in the village of Nazareth.

Matthew 1:18 says, “This is how Jesus the Messiah was born. His mother, Mary, was engaged to be married to Joseph. But before the marriage took place, while she was still a virgin, she became pregnant through the power of the Holy Spirit. 19 Joseph, to whom she was engaged, was a righteous man and did not want to disgrace her publicly, so he decided to break the engagement quietly. 20 As he considered this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream. “Joseph, son of David,” the angel said, “do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife. For the child within her was conceived by the Holy Spirit. 21 And she will have a son, and you are to name him Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins.”

Joseph believes the angel. Matthew 1:24 says, “When Joseph woke up, he did as the angel of the Lord commanded and took Mary as his wife. 25 But he did not have sexual relations with her until her son was born. And Joseph named him Jesus.”

Mary’s pregnancy progresses and she becomes more uncomfortable, probably enduring pain, as the birth of her baby draws near. As if being a pregnant virgin and a teenager is not enough for Mary to be working through, a census order is issued. Now she and Joseph have to travel 90 miles. Mary may have experienced emotional pain, ‘Why a census on top of everything else going on’? Riding on a donkey is not the most comfortable thing, but Mary was also very pregnant. She was most likely in pain with a sore back and feet all while on a donkey enduring varying terrain and temperatures. She was leaving her family behind as they traveled farther and farther away from everyone and everything she knew, which can be painful and scary.

When the time came for Mary to give birth, she was in a cave-like place laying in hay surrounded by animals. Mary was a teenager in pain with no doctor, no pain relief, little knowledge of what to expect, and no parent there to hold her hand. Mary had little to no privacy, she was a virgin giving birth with no medical team to check the baby and tell Mary he is ok. There were no books to read or pre-birthing classes. She and Joseph had to put all pain and confusion aside and go on faith that everything would be ok and that God would provide for and protect them.

Let’s pray. Father in heaven, thank You for Your love, guidance, provision and protection. Thank You for Jesus and for giving us Your Son. Thank you for the strength and courage shown by a teenager, may we have faith that can move mountains. Help us to keep our eyes on You. In Jesus name we pray, amen.